We owe it to ourselves to be ourselves. And if that's impossible, then we owe it to those who love us and who have loved us.
Beautiful, unstoppable, indestructible energy goes into love. Don't tangle yourself in that love, wrapping it around and around you until you're trapped and immobile, mistaking that binding for safety. Instead, use that long line of love as a tether; trust it will hold you close, while giving you so much strength, so much support, and so much room to move that you can take yourself anywhere.
All of yourself.
All of anywhere.